You’ve tried everything. You’ve seen counselors and therapists. You tried agreeing with your spouse. You tried ignoring your spouse. You tried arguing with your spouse. You tried to be the best partner you can be. But you are still miserable. You know that this marriage is not working. You know that your spouse is not the right person for you. You’ve spent years trying to fix, deny and ignore the problems. You’ve done everything but leave. Why? Because you’ve been just too scared.
People stay in bad relationships and marriages longer than they should because they’re scared. They’re scared of
Retaliation from their spouse/partner for leaving
Going through the pain of separation and divorce
Putting their children through separation and divorce
And mostly, The Unknown.
It takes courage and a commitment to living your best life to leave a marriage. It takes a willingness to jump off the cliff (metaphorically speaking) and trust that you will land on your feet, all the while not knowing how far you will fall before reaching solid ground. It takes believing in yourself and knowing that you have what it takes to survive anything and thrive because of it. It takes a leap of faith when you don’t believe in yourself and your future. And lastly, it simply takes taking that last step away from the cliff and allowing yourself to “fall.”
There’s no special trick in taking that last step into the unknown. It only takes you. No promises, no guarantees. It just takes that one moment when you say “Enough is enough; I’m done.”
What will it take for you to choose you? Who will you go to for support and guidance along the way? When will you decide that an unknown future is better than what you have today?
Your life is now. You choose.
If you or someone you know is scared to leave a marriage or committed relationship, please don’t hesitate to contact me. I’m here to help. I provide personalized guidance and coaching. And if you want to start right now, go and purchase The Pathway to Love at-home program. You don’t need to wait. You can begin the process today. Take advantage of the opportunity receive the support and guidance you deserve.