Do you want an amazing, fulfilling relationship?
Do you feel like giving up on relationships?
Don’t give up. There really is a pathway to a strong and loving relationship.
I have seen people struggle with the same issues over and over again. People come to me feeling angry, sad, frustrated, anxious, and utterly confused. It is important to understand that you can be smart and successful in many areas of your life and still struggle when it comes to your relationships. Most people find themselves hitting the same brick walls time and time again.
The Pathway to Love was developed out of my 25 years of experience helping people understand what was happening, why it was happening, and how to finally create a more loving and powerful relationship.
I’m here to support you in creating a life filled with joy, love, success and well-being. As a subscriber, you will receive articles and tips on how to navigate your personal and professional lives with more ease and grace. I look forward to being of service and getting to know you!
Featured Articles by Julie
Interesting knowledge about everyday relationship topics
Are You In-Love with a Narcissist?
One day you meet a great guy (or girl). You are drawn to this person from the beginning. You feel a strong connection—like you've finally found your soulmate. You are charmed and feel very special. You inhale the intoxicating feeling of being in love. All is good. Then one day, out of the blue, you feel dismissed, rejected, unimportant and irrelevant. You're confused, wondering what went wrong—wondering why your new love has sudden changed. The minute you try to confront your love, asking why his attention has suddenly gone away, you receive a patronizing, condescending attitude, as if somehow, it is you who has the problem. Your need for attention and validation becomes heightened. Instead of feeling special, you begin to feel crazy and judged. You see yourself as desperate when in truth it is your new love that is desperate for constant attention and validation. And if you dare to criticize your new love in any way, you are met with anger—for a true narcissist does not like to be seen as anything other than perfect.
You find yourself altering your behavior so you can once again find that charming person who made you feel so good. You may compromise your personal integrity and values. You focus all your energies on how to make your partner love you, spend time with you and treat you once again like the answer to his prayers. All your energies are drained—little, if any, is returned from your love.
Being with a narcissist (or anyone with a character disorder) is draining. You continue to work hard to capture those few moments in time when being with your love felt great. Now here's the tricky part. He will. She will. That is the drug that a narcissist gives. It is the intermittent reinforcement of feeling so special and cared for that keeps you hanging in there, waiting and wanting more. That is the narcissist's hook. It is not bad all the time. And when it is good, it is really good.
Here's what's important for you to know. Narcissists are.... Click Read in Browser to access full article
Find (and be) the right partner for lasting love
Avoid the pitfalls other couples get stuck in
Transform your ok relationship into something amazing
What they say about Julie
“You will acquire a whole new appreciation for who you are and what you can bring to your relationship with yourself and others. Orlov demonstrates not only how we affect and create our relationship with ourselves and others but how they can affect us in return on the creative journey of self-discovery and self-love.” — Bernie Siegel, M.D., author of 365 Prescriptions For The Soul and 101 Exercises For The Soul
“The Pathway To Love is a unique answer to help qualify us for the very rewarding and serious business of human intimacy.” —Rhonda Kendle, Spokane, WA
“You will have many moments of deep self discovery and insights into why some of your relationships failed so miserably and why some lasted for a while but never really ‘got off the ground’.” –Irene Conlan
“This program is awesome. It’s been a long time since I felt this optimistic and positive about making positive changes in my life and accepting certain things about myself. I’m honored to work for a company that provides this type of support for its teammates.”
– Director, DaVita, Inc.