Understanding the Dance of Relationships

Everything in life is made up of energy. Relationships are made from energy. And all energy is comprised of both negative and positive particles. So relationships are no different. In every relationship, there is a taker and a giver, a pursuer and a distancer, an optimist and a pessimist, and so on and so on. In some relationships, these roles are rigid. Each person will assume their roles and maintain them at all cost. In other relationships, the roles are shared. Sometimes one person takes, at other times, he gives. Sometimes one person is optimistic, at other times, pessimistic. Although there really is no right or wrong in the matter, some combinations work better than others. When a taker is with a giver and both parties prefer their assumed roles, the relationship tends to be more stable (some might argue stagnant, but stable nonetheless). When both partners prefer flexibility and demonstrate the ability to do just that, their relationship tends to move through life with more ease.

Relationships become more challenging when there is an incompatibility to how the energy moves within the relationship. For example... Click Read in Browser to read full articley.

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My Gift to You – Track One of The Pathway to Love Audio Guide

When you first fall in love, it is common to feel both excited and anxious. Excited about how good it feels and what your future holds. Anxious because nothing feels secure and you don’t want to experience any rejection, disappointment, or despair. And while you feel like you know your new love interest, in reality, you don’t really know each other at all. That is why people are hyper reactive when things go wrong—or should I say—differently from what you had hoped and expected from this new and potential relationship.

People get caught off guard all the time—expecting their new love’s behavior to be consistent with the person they experienced on the first few dates or first few weeks. However, when something changes suddenly and unexpectedly, it is easy to feel confused and concerned. How you handle these situations can set the course for how you and your love interest handle future interactions. Knowing what to do can directly impact the future of this relationship. Understanding what is going on with you will ensure a powerful outcome, regardless of what that outcome is.

The Pathway to Love show you exactly what is happening, why it is happening, and how to move through the four phases with power and grace so you don’t unnecessarily mess things up or jeopardize your well-being. It enables you to create a partnership (or not) from a place of power. It helps you transform yourself and your relationship in a way that builds a strong foundation for creating intimacy.

Some of you have been hesitant to fully invest in The Pathway to Love program. To help you make this decision, I wanted to offer you a gift—a preview of what is available to you from having purchased The Pathway to Love at-home program. I am giving you the download of Track One from The Pathway to Love Audio Guide where you will listen in on my coaching session with Andrea. Andrea is struggling with how to deal with her new boyfriend of two months, who suddenly stopped returning her calls and emails. Listen in on how Andrea learns why she is reacting the way she is and how best to respond to her boyfriend’s disappearance.

I know you will not only enjoy listening to this powerful coaching session, but will be able to learn from Andrea’s experience by applying it to one of your own. For you, it may be something else but everyone has something happen in their relationship that “throws them off balance. Learn what you can do in your own situation.

Please enjoy my gift to you. It will also give you a taste of what the complete program has to offer. And don’t hesitate to contact me with any questions or comments.

Click here to retrieve your free download of “Andrea’s New Love” from The Pathway to Love Audio Guide.

If you or someone you know is struggling with creating a strong and intimate relationship, please reach out and contact me. I am here to provide personalized guidance and coaching. And if you want to start right now, go and purchase The Pathway to Love at-home program. You don’t need to wait. You can begin the process today. Take advantage of the opportunity receive the support and guidance you deserve. 

As always, I’m here to support you in creating a transformational life and strong and powerful relationships. 

Be well, 

Julie

Julie Orlov, psychotherapist, speaker, and author of The Pathway to Love: Create Intimacy and Transform Your Relationships through Self-Discovery

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