If you or someone you know is not having luck in the area of finding love, there just may be some very good reasons as to why this is so. A lot of people with good intentions will tell you what you are doing wrong and what it is you need to do in order to “call in the one.” The underlying assumption is that you are at the cause of the problem—in fact, the underlying false assumption is that there is a problem to begin with. There are many reasons why you may not be relationship ready—all of which are sound and sensible as to why this may not be the right time for you to find and create a long-term committed romantic relationship. Don’t worry. I will not leave you hanging. Here is a list of some of the many reasons why your single or uncommitted status reflects why you are exactly where you need to be.
During those first few dates with someone new, it is important to identify any possible red flags. Doing so can save you weeks, if not months, of unnecessary drama and pain. While I believe that it takes a long time to truly get to know someone, I also believe that people reveal certain things about themselves unknowingly during that initial ‘get to know you’ phase. And while most dates try to be on their best behavior during the first and second dates, there are hidden (and sometimes not so hidden) clues to identifying your date’s true agenda and values. Today, I’m going to share with you how to find the clues that will give you the information you need in order to determine if another date with this person is in your future.